“More is
gained by the mistakes of those who honestly try to think for themselves than
by the correct opinions of those who hold them simply because they have not
heard the other side.”
~Helen Keller
Relatively few people in this life
consistently risk for trying, because of the humiliating price of failure.
Most people figure there’s nothing
to be gained through humble humiliation. It is hence studiously avoided. People
would rather be situated in the safety of the correctness of their opinions.
They would rather appear knowledgeable, and yet, the reality is, they will not
learn much and there won’t be much joy added to them.
Failure marks us for embarrassment
in the instant of the mistake. But the depths experienced for learning are
colossal. Embarrassment verging on humiliation is transformative.
Yet, the shelter in proffering a
safe opinion is merely transactional—nothing ventured, nothing gained; no risk,
no return.
Learning To Delight In Our Mistakes
The very fact that we are bound to
learn more in our errors, and by the calculated risks we take, than we are in
sprouting our puffed up knowledge should be all the more significant if we are
interested in growth.
In theory every Christian is. But
in practice the vast majority don’t care for the furnace of spiritual
refinement. They would prefer to look good.
Where are we?
Are we the kind of persons that
find a purpose in the worst of news? Do we see a silver lining encircling the
thunder cloud? Are we able to conjure thought for blessing in the midst of
cursing? Can we envisage the learning designed into the mistake?
We can nurture such never-say-die curious
humility.
The purity in the person genuinely
trying is admirable. They put themselves out there; where there’s no immediate self-gain.
This person has learned to delight, at least partially, in their mistakes. They
have turned their embarrassment into a realistic optimism for what might be
gained, eventually.
The Faith To Risk
Of course, it involves faith to
risk what we don’t need to risk, as risking is seen as an investment.
Those who risk in faith not only
learn more, they inspire others to risk, also. It’s as if they have blazed a
trial that others might emulate. They have shown by example that the faith to
risk never destroys them. They are seen as courageous, and, more appropriately,
fundamentally committed to truth. They earn respect and credibility.
The faith to risk, which involves
great courage to lead, is the necessary trait of the would-be leader.
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To risk for faith is honourable
and worthy of respect, when the safety of a safe opinion might have been
prioritised. When we go out on a limb for the truth we inspire people. They
want to emulate our courage.
Failure can be an open door to a
better style of success: learning, growth and inspiration can be ours, simply
for an invitingly curious attitude in the midst of mistakes.
© 2012 S. J. Wickham.
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