A SURPRISING AMOUNT of our aches
and pains, and other physical complaints, can be drawn down, possibly, to signs
of unconscious anxiety. Anxiety at this level, which may be impossible to
identify or rationalise, insists upon a hearing. We may not feel stressed or anxious, but our souls may say
differently.
Our best proposal is to consider
what case the unconscious may have, regarding anxiety, when we experience
physical pain. Sure, many of our physical ailments have causes that are known,
though many niggles don’t.
Was that
crick in the neck we woke up with the other day really as a result of sleeping
poorly, and, if so, was there a reason why we were
sleeping poorly?
Having Life ‘Under Control’
The resistance we meet, of course,
is few of us want to readily admit we don’t have life under complete control.
The truth is, none of us really has life under complete control. All of us have an underlying sense
of anxiety—at an unconscious level. Much of this keeps us aware of our surroundings,
of our lives, of the place we have in existence.
Some anxiety seems necessary.
The moment we can bear in mind
that our defences intend on protecting our anxiety is the moment we can hold
open, in view, these vital anxieties that help hold us together, and, provide
for our very identities.
We may not feel anxious—but our body may be saying otherwise.
It’s simply something to ponder.
***
If we think our unconscious minds
are trying to tell us something, and that the unconscious anxiety is provoking
physical pain or discomfort, we can ask why.
It’s the masterstroke of an
emotionally-conscious person to value what their deeper self could be
communicating. Of course, the unconscious mind—that part of ourselves that’s
difficult to reach in a conscious sort of way—remains enigmatic.
But if we wish to pursue personal
growth, there may be no better way to tangible gain.
That’s why unexplained niggles and
pains can provide a clue that all is not well at a soul level. Perhaps things
are not going well at work, or in one of our important relationships, or we’re
battling with a season of doubting. It could be one of a thousand reasons, and
it could be two or three or four issues at a time.
We must simply recognise one issue
and work on it.
If we can connect the presence of
unexplained niggles and pains as potentially signs of unconscious anxiety we
can empathise with ourselves, and we can find an answer to the difficulties our
bodies are experiencing. Something explains the inexplicable.
And by working on what might not
be working within our lives, we may be able to shift the basis of our niggles
and pains.
***
Our problems can highlight anxiety
at a deeper level. When we’re aware, we can ask why. Heightened awareness helps
us attend to the causes of our anxiety and our problems often diminish.
© 2012 S. J. Wickham.
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