The truth of life
is held, as in a droplet, within a moment, and then everything changes, even as
most things stay the same.
As data makes its
way as information, compiled meaningfully, assembled truthfully, pulsating in
reality, we breathe in and then we breathe out.
Consciousness
facilitates thought, which proffers reflection. Therein lays the pain. Or
perhaps it’s a case that this information is just a little too surreal. We
stare, fully awakened to the truth, not anesthetised, but the information
breaks over the senses of our cognitive experience, even as we feel it.
This is how we may
be exposed to a life changing moment.
***
Preparing for a
life changing moment is every stretch of wisdom, given the paradox: we cannot
possibly prepare for the specificity of such a unique set of mental and
emotional requirements.
But if we have
learned anything at all about life until this point it’s that pain has the
purpose of compelling the instructiveness of experience.
In short, the pain
we have experienced in truth – that which we bore upon our reality, not
shirking it – has been the very impetus for preparation as harder things come.
***
Life changing
moments are so inevitable we are foolish to not try and anticipate them.
As we do try and
guard our wellbeing by envisaging what could happen and how it could cost us,
we are not being pessimistic, but we are being wise. Such reflections also
nurture the grounded solidity of humility in us.
We can easily
borrow some bad outcomes from others; there are plenty of bad news stories
going around. Without sufficient faith we would be sunk into an abyss of
depression, but with humility we are able to soak up learning – “How would I
respond?”
As soon as we
recognise that we are open on all counts to the vagaries of life our confidence
in our solitary control is obliterated. We begin to respect God – who is the
Author of Control. We are not depressed in being the controlled as much as we
are grateful for all the many days of our lives when life was safe and
predictable.
***
Life will change
dramatically for all of us at some point. We are wise to engage in the humility
of tasting others’ dark experiences – even as we empathise.
That life change is
inevitable shouldn’t be depressing. If we prepare our hearts for the pain that
will come eventually, we may endure the hardship better.
***
Sailing on the
stormy seas is fraught with danger. The time to check all the critical rigging
is when the weather is fine, not when we are battered, bruised, and broken.
© 2014 S. J.
Wickham.
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