There are some realities that are
beyond reconciliation, notwithstanding the strongest faith in God. It is clear
in some people’s lives, those problems without explanation, because it is a
mystery beyond human understanding, that tragedies and despairing come as a
dark cloud raining hopelessness and helplessness with no room for peace.
In such circumstances there is no
appropriate room for cliché and platitudes—albeit the caring of hearts.
Sometimes it is our own pain we wish to quell in the sight of another’s—their
pain hearkens us to the unconscious pain deep within us that seeks to be heard.
What we need most of all through
tragedy and despair is the grace of God, relationally, through understanding,
patience, and especially uncommon kindness.
Pretty quickly upon dealing with
situations so complex do we come upon the recognition; this, and so many
things, is beyond us. We feel useless. No matter how close we are to
situations, some we can do nothing about, but simply look on.
But there is hope in looking on
when feeling useless.
Looking on and Feeling Useless
There are so many people who have
stared with forlorn resignation and sighing at a family member or dear friend
they cannot help, but for the grace of God to love them in the most accepting
of ways.
But the grace of God is enough as
we disburse it without limit. Grace is always enough. But with grace we need to
continually remind ourselves some things will always remain a mystery; that’s
precisely why we need grace. Surrender.
For that gap in our understanding,
a gap that seems cavernous like the Grand Canyon,
grace was made; a thing of God that leads us to acceptance of the things we
cannot understand, impact or change.
The privilege of feeling
useless—if I could be so crass—is that we come to the end of ourselves; for,
the things of God are far beyond the things of humanity. Some things we will
never understand and maturity has us simply accepting them and abiding by
grace; redeeming grace, so to speak.
When we have learned this secret
power of grace, that is the answer to many mysteries and enigmas and
oddities—an answer without being an answer—we have access to a strength we
cannot explain, but is all the more powerful in our lives.
***
Situations of tragedy and despair
confound us, because we’re quickly out of our depth. Looking on and feeling
useless isn’t helped by words or anything really, other than accessing the
grace of God which somehow helps. Grace assists us in grappling with things that
would otherwise cripple us. Pray for it today; God gives generously.
© 2013 S. J. Wickham.
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