Friday, January 8, 2016

100 Ways You Can Be Grateful Every Day This Year

GRATITUDE tends us toward joy.  It’s just the way life works.  The more grateful we are, the more thankful we are, the more joy we experience.
So, in being grateful in these ways, we will experience more joy (and hope and peace, which propel us forward in love and faith).  Here are 100 ways you can be grateful this year through simple acknowledgement:
1.      Another year of life.
2.      Look with your eyes.
3.      Breathe.
4.      State your purpose for the moment, day, year.
5.      Not got a purpose?  Find one.  Be grateful for the opportunity.
6.      Flowers, honey and bees.
7.      Feel feelings.
8.      Taste of good food.
9.      Privilege of being listened to.
10. Listening intently with someone.
11. Flossing.
12. Technology.
13. The privilege of complaining about First World problems.
14. Your body.  It’s yours.  Manage it like you were its landlord.
15. Walk, cycle, run.
16. Rest.  Doing nothing.  Allowing the heart and mind stillness.
17. Loved ones.
18. The love of God in loneliness.
19. Hope for the year.
20. Choice – to praise rather than just stuck in complaint.
21. Ability to make wise decisions.
22. God’s grace.
23. Motion picture escapism.
24. Opportunities to be educated.
25. Your education.
26. Leisure.
27. A good book.
28. Public transport.
29. Smiles.
30. A cool breeze and shade on a summer’s day.
31. Warmth in winter.
32. The state of being safely inside in a storm (not a hurricane).
33. Weather warnings.
34. Science.
35. The unfathomable majesty of the universe.
36. Forgiveness of your sin.
37. Your home – even if you don’t own it, it’s a roof over your head.
38. Food whenever you want it… (assuming that’s a luxury open to you).
39. Possessions – many good tools for living life.
40. Insurance.
41. Warm handshakes.
42. Eye contact made.
43. Respect given and earned.
44. The choice to stay or leave.
45. Peace remains, over the cusp of life (assuming Jesus is your Saviour).
46. Eternal life as a reality or opportunity, today, this day, and eternally (per condition in point 45).
47. Opportunities to ask questions for clarity.
48. The ability to hear.
49. Opera, rock and any other music genre you enjoy.
50. Letting go what’s lost; enjoying what you have.
51. Others – those who bless your life right now.
52. God’s power to change our minds and hearts.
53. Knowledge.
54. Life experience.
55. The skills you have.  Jot them down.  You can do so much!
56. Your parents – whoever they are or have been.  They ‘caused’ you.
57. That you can laugh (even when you may want to cry).
58. The joy of caring.
59. The relief in sharing.
60. Animals.
61. Thinking and reasoning abilities.
62. The wonder in mathematics.
63. That life doesn’t require us to know everything.
64. Water.  Drinking water.  Clean drinking water.
65. Oxygen.
66. Sunsets.
67. Sunrises.
68. That peace is a choice.
69. Strength – even when you’re weak enough you think you’ll die; and you don’t.
70. The privilege of complaining.
71. The joy of rising above complaint.
72. Understanding.
73. A rational conversation.
74. Butter.
75. Wisdom – and the fact you can learn.
76. Doctors, nurses, policemen.
77. Veterans – their sacrifice.
78. The elderly – it will be your turn one day.
79. Football (or any other sport that gives you pleasure).
80. Infants.
81. The child’s mind in not only the child, but you, also.
82. Clocks… time.
83. Keys to locks.
84. Memory, and even the fact you don’t remember.
85. Pioneers, and the things they’ve discovered that you appreciate.
86. Libraries.
87. Generosity.
88. Teachers… and grateful students.
89. Your wife… your husband… hope of a wife or a husband in your future.
90. Your achievements.
91. Sleep.  Good sleep.  Alertness.
92. You can look up.
93. Looking after other people’s stuff for them.
94. Wonder in the things you’ll learn today.
95. Picture frames.
96. The seasons of life as you look back.
97. Reunions.
98. Intact glassware.
99. Stationery.  It all had to be invented you know.
100.         I’m sure you can think of the hundredth thing.  It’s taken only forty-one minutes to compile this list.
© 2016 Steve Wickham.

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Thanking God For That Earlier Version of Yourself

Sunday December 7, 2003. An abysmal time. A desperately lonely time. A time of feeling way out of control. A time when I could not fix what was inevitably broken. It was the night before I would leave on one final interstate work trip for a full week. I couldn’t stand to be apart from my three precious girls back then. I was bitterly confused, unable to contain my emotions, and regularly beset with panic attacks.
You know the time when your emotions boil over and you’re a weeping mess. That was the size and weight of this particular season; this very night as I observed it from my journal. I didn’t know if I could get through. And I actually didn’t know if I wanted to. I had such barren purpose. I had no vision for what good that could come, other than to hope for a return to what had been. And that has gone! And yet there was a God-dimension that was invisibly real; enough to keep me scantly hopeful. A hope that actually doesn’t feel like you think hope feels like.
The photograph above is of that time. The thing that strikes me most is my family was young and we were all so vulnerable. But I look at us now and I thank God for holding me together in the midst of what was frequently overwhelming. My girls were so inspiringly strong. There were times when they held me up!
I like to go back at the start of each year and thank God for that earlier version of myself, a person who could not give up, because:
- there was too much to lose.
- I was unable to let go.
- and, I really don’t know why (praise God).
This is what faithfulness does. We don’t need to be perfect. We will make mistakes. In being overwhelmed there will often be regrets. Worse may seem to get worse and worse, but overall you do get through, even though at the time you cannot see the point of it, or whether you can even endure it.
Times like this you look back to with fondness. Under the strain of testing you are found (later... much later) with the mettle that sustains. Under such strain there’s no strength of any worth to draw on other than God’s; that’s my experience.
If all you have is vulnerable, and if tenuousness is your plight right now, hold up, hold within, and hold on. Something good is coming from this in God’s far-off timing. Don’t give your joy to a substance or addiction or anesthetize yourself. Don’t throw hope into the ashes. Ply faith. Love as much as you’re able. And endure. Just endure.
And know… you’re loved… so loved!
One day, when you’ve gotten through your living hell, you’ll thank God for that earlier version of yourself who just held on.
© 2016 Steve Wickham.

Sunday, January 3, 2016

No Matter What, This Is True, No Matter What Life’s Got, God’s Got You

January 1, 2004, I received this bright drawing from one of my three daughters. She was 8 at the time. I got many gifts like this at the time from each of my girls.
Twelve years ago, having lost everything that meant everything to me, I was often in a very dark place; a sort of experience you never think is possible it’s so painful. Yet I knew with no doubt whatsoever that God was there with me every step. He was present in and through my daughters and my parents. Those five individuals kept me alive. Them, and two sponsors (mentors), a guide, a pastor (who is still in Baptist ministry in Mandurah), and a growing list of others as I began to trust people as the Holy Spirit led me.
I could never have imagined when I received this sunrise drawing how life would actually turn out. There were still many dark days ahead for me. I still had days and hours and moments ahead of me (and I still have them now) when I felt like giving up. And I have realised that, for me, this is normal, and in God’s sight, acceptable. God loves feelers as much as thinkers. And this has been an untold blessing for others I’ve been privileged to minister with.
Don’t ever feel like you’re not good enough if you’re tempted to give up.
Don’t feel you’re a disappointment to God when you never actually learn a key lesson, ever. God is supremely patient. He just loves our effort.
Don’t underestimate God’s ability to surprise you with something like a blessed sunrise drawing.
Don’t forget those who were there for you... those who are there for you now. Trust those that God places in your path who only want to help.
Don’t feel you ever have to have your life together. There’s abundantly more glory to God in our brokenness than there ever is in our apparent perfection.
Don’t forget that God walks faithfully with us no matter where we’re at. As we keep looking to Him, as we cry out without answer or help, He helps. He gets us through till morning.
And don’t forget that if the mire is now, now will not always be a mire.
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No matter what,
This thing is true,
No matter what life’s got,
God’s got you!
When you feel at the end of things, don’t forget God beat you there; He’s still there with you.
And, as for sunrise drawings, the sunrise in your story comes after the sunset in your life — a bright new beginning can only appear when the end has come.
After night, look, there is morning; the sun rises.
© 2004, 2016 Steve Wickham.

Friday, January 1, 2016

How Do I Live Intentionally For Eternity?

WITH every breathe we take there is one less breathe left in us, just as Ravi Zacharias said, “with every sunset there are fewer sunrises ahead.”
FINITENESS.  These are the facts of our days.  And the facts of our days are irrepressibly true.  How are we to, as the psalmist says, number our days, that we might nurture a heart of wisdom?
Just as pertinent a question, at New Year, is how do I live intentionally for eternity?  I’ve called it the acronym for L.I.F.E. for really good reason.  Maybe our abundant life is centred firmly in the practice of living purposely for a day that is very certainly coming; a day that will come like a thief in the night.
Living intentionally for eternity is nothing about consumption.  It’s about consummation.  It’s nothing about worldly extravagance.  It’s about worshipping extravagantly.  It’s nothing about taking, unless it’s about taking the opportunity to give.
If we can give away what we may certainly possess in order to possess that which cannot be owned, we’ve learned to own possessions that money and fame cannot buy.
Such a possession is vouchsafed as the eternal life of our Lord Jesus Christ — a thing that never looks like anything this side of eternity.  The less we covet, the more we possess in the interminable realm.  And that realm is right here, right now, even though we cannot and do not perceive it.
Living intentionally for eternity is the abundant and eternal life that cannot be known.
It cannot be known without blind exploration into the darkness of life; the sheer testimony of faith.
The darker the steps are made, the more light we take with us into the darkness.  These are most certainly steps that will confuse and confound us.  But as we take them with Jesus, assured of his Spirit’s Presence walking with us, we’re given a rested peace; a foretaste of eternity to know we’re okay.  And that’s it: faith.
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Faith will teach us to number our days.  None of us want to die, yet none of us can handle thought of a life marooned on planet earth.  When faith advises us to take the counsel of the finiteness of life, faith gives us purpose with which to live; to not waste an iota of this life, whilst we prepare for the next life.
L.I.F.E. is short for living intentionally for eternity.
Life, the abundant life of eternity.
Life, the eternal life of abundance.
Although we may waste our lives, nothing we ever do here is a waste —
not to God — nothing goes unnoticed and nothing is unimportant.
We’re not on earth forever.  Someday life will end.  What plans are you making?  How are you living your life for beyond life?
Earth time is preparation time.  Yet, earth time is also time we learn about eternal life, through living intentionally for eternity.
© 2015 Steve Wickham.