LONG ago I discovered there are two ways of living life
positively no matter the circumstances we find ourselves in — in plenty and in
want, in sickness and in health, for better and for poorer.
These two ways are hence:
1.
Live
as if there is no tomorrow. In other words, we would live as if we would
die this very day — today! Now for a secular person that might mean living it
up, spending up big, doing every sordid thing possible. But that’s not how to
live if you believe there is a life beyond this life. We might use our final
hours to say our appropriate goodbyes, ‘I love you’ to loved ones, and to
forgive all the grudges that remain.
2.
Live
as if today is the start of the rest of our lives.
This way we put whatever has held us back in the past behind us. We move ahead
unrestrained and unconstrained into a future replete with blessings of
relational treasure. A future with a vision for spiritual prosperity.
The criticisms of the first method are few, if we take the
latter attitude — eyes focused on eternity. The criticisms of the second method
are also few, if we honestly repent of past transgressions against others.
Hopefully we are prepared to live in the light only of eternity.
If we live as if there is no tomorrow, we are not plagued by
fear for the future. If we live as if today was the start of the rest of our
lives, we depart from guilt and shame for the past.
If we integrate both these we have the solution to most of
our problems — if, indeed, the past or the future are problematic for us in any
way.
Living as if there were no tomorrow, yet, living as if life
starts from today, motivates us to make the most of the present.
We are neither hemmed in by fear nor guilt or shame. We take
the present moment just as it’s presented — so totally uninvolved with emotion
one way or the other.
Living for today and living as if life starts today is living
grounded in the present.
Nothing can harm us if we are so dedicated to making this
moment work. Nothing can disempower us if what was behind is firmly behind, and
if what is ahead is left ahead.
Live for today, yet in light of eternity. Life starts today,
yet don’t forget it may end today, too.
© 2015 Steve
Wickham.
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