“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage
to continue that counts.”
— Sir Winston Churchill (1874–1965)
My stock in trade is exploring and
discovering the secrets of life. This is surely one of them. There is a balance
to be achieved in achievement. When the objective is always to succeed and
never to fail, yet we will ultimately fail at some things, possibly many
things, there stands a dichotomy: an attack on the soul of one who depends on success as an instrument for determining their
success as a human being in life.
Success and failure—the mature
learn—are not ultimate destinations at all in this life. They are merely way
stations, indicators perhaps, of our overall state within the journey we call
life. Success and failure prove more valuable as instruments of learning and
character reproval.
The Objective of Success
We all love success and we all
love to be measured by our successes.
But that is not where we find the
means and ends of life. Success is merely encouragement along the way; that we
are on the right track, for the moment.
So, the objectives of success are
instilling in us knowledge of the things that are working—presently. If we are
wise we will learn from our successes in order to replicate them. Yet we need
proper sight to do that. We need wisdom with which to gain meaning from success.
If we cannot learn the ‘why’ of
our successes, we cannot replicate them, and our successes are reduced to
indicators of unharnessed skill, good fortune or luck.
The Objective of Failure
Now that we have dealt with the
objective of success, we can focus on the objective within failure. Some people
may wonder, “What possible
objective could there be in failure?”
It depends on whether we are a
Christian or not, or even broadly spiritual.
Those who understand life in its
deeper fissures will quickly glean there is as much potential for joy within
failure as there is in success. Failure is often the yardstick with which we
measure our successes. Without failure there is no impetus to courage. Without
failure there is no test of the character. Without failure there truly is no
inspiration. Failures give successes an abundance more of meaning.
Our challenge is to fail well.
That means we consider our failures maturely; not rebounding in fear, but
responding in a resilience that has us learning in humility.
Failure is just as important as
success is.
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Success and failure are both
important, as they are both yardsticks for learning. Persistence is required in
meeting both these outcomes. Success and failure are not end points. They are
merely indicators along our way. Despite outcomes it’s the courage to continue
that counts.
© 2012 S. J. Wickham.
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