“The
sole cause of man’s unhappiness is that he does not know how to stay quietly in
his room.”
— BLAISE
PASCAL (1623–1662)
Having wondered for months what the cause of
my distracted and oftentimes overwhelmed mindset was, I somehow knew that the
old nemesis of busyness had crept in, but I hadn’t noticed the role I was
playing in not making enough room for my creative outlet.
My creative outlet is writing, but when I’m
rushed it isn’t enjoyable and it isn’t my best work. It becomes rather a chore.
Funny to think that something that is voluntary can become a chore – but it’s
also core to my call of God.
Central to the distracted and overwhelmed
mindset is a person’s relegation of their own time and space to be themselves
without priorities clashing all over the place and confusing the mind and
paining the heart.
Blaise Pascal had it right. When we have
room enough to retreat into ourselves as part of our daily routine, we benefit
from giving expression to our creative outlet and happiness is then in the
frame.
Staying Quietly In Our Rooms
Despite the exceptions, where we make
hermits of ourselves, God clearly designed us to have sufficient space in every
day – and certainly every week, via Sabbath – where we have enough control to
truly experience peace; without tormenting thoughts of tight schedules, the
clash of priorities, and juggling many other people’s needs encroaching.
Indeed we need this time we can stay quietly
in our rooms, where we can find ourselves again, in order that we are the best
for everybody else; so we can serve them in the fullness of love, without
mental or emotional or spiritual constraint. Some people get up at 4AM just to
get their quiet time.
Yet no matter how good it is for us to stay
quietly in our rooms, it takes an enormous amount of discipline to approach
this wisdom and apply it.
Staying quietly within our rooms could be as
simple as sitting somewhere quiet, reading one thing (perhaps a Bible passage),
without distraction, even with our hands clasped so we cannot do anything other
than do one thing.
Without noise or distraction, and only one
thing entering our minds, and being that way for a short period – 20 to 60
minutes – and there is such a soul calm about us.
***
The biggest single gift we can give
ourselves, if we are overwhelmed in busyness, is to find time and space daily
for a meaningful creative outlet, and thus stay quietly in the room of our soul
for that time.
© 2013 S. J. Wickham.
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