EVERYONE needs to retreat at one time or other.
Retreat is not about giving up on anything other than our insane
pace, chronic drivenness, surface-level superficiality, and hardness of soul.
To retreat is to reinvent the self and reconnect with our soul.
We all desire, need, and deserve reconnection time. To retreat
is to reconnect with ourselves, through reconnecting with God, so our
relationships will have the feature of connection about them.
If you crave time alone to bush walk out in the lavish environs
of nature, then a contemplative retreat is for you. When you don’t want people
hassling you anymore and you hanker for silence, reflection, and space, you’re
a contemplative.
If you feel emptied of depth at the level of your mind, and
studying is your thing, an intellectual retreat recharges you.
You are not so much an ‘intellectual’ as someone curious to go to the cognitive
depths — to be challenged in your mind. An intense Bible study is your thing.
When you feel charged up to serve, and especially if mission
work is your thing, a change is as good as a holiday. To go and serve connects
us with our personal entreaties of social justice. Serving people may not
deplete us, but actually invigorate us.
Some true extroverts only feel truly engaged with themselves in
the company of others; particularly if depth of relationship can be achieved. A
relational
retreat is something akin to a conference. It mixes rest with rapport.
Some people respond to mysticism in the way of the charismata of
worship. To reconnect with the Holy Spirit and have spiritual awakenings is the
charismatic’s
idea of a great retreat.
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All retreats are about reflection, depth, renewal, and change.
The best retreats match our personalities for renewal, and may
well combine elements of the contemplative, the intellectual, service,
relational, and the charismatic.
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We all desire, need, and deserve reconnection time.
To retreat is to do soul maintenance.
Our souls need probably the gentlest of care, and to respond to
our personal needs is the greatest favour of self-care we can do for ourselves
which enables our work with others for God.
Taking a monthly retreat of a day out, to complement our weekly
Sabbath time, is wise. To add to these times of haven with an annual or even
three-monthly getaway is also recuperative.
Retreat is the way we safely advance
in life. It is beneficial for our physical, intellectual, social, emotional,
relational, interpersonal, and spiritual health.
© 2015 S. J. Wickham.
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