We learn a lot about a
person by the way they use power.
We all have power, some of
which we may assume falsely; that which others give us. Then there is the
legitimate power we are given; that for which we are responsible and accountable
for. It may be the greatest test of life: are we seen and known as trustworthy in the discharge of the
powers entrusted to us?
There is a system of
thought regarding the use of power, proposed by Rollo May that helps us
organise our rationale of whether power is used for good or evil.
Of these powers, the best is
integrative and the worst is exploitative. Between these two poles there is
nutrient power, competitive power and manipulative power.
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The best use of power is integrative—where we use power to serve others in
uniquely respectful ways. People are safe under this inspiring use of power.
They have safe basis for their trust and faith in those who execute power for
the good of all.
The next best power is nutrient power—where we expect there is
inequality and the person with the power compensates by ensuring growth
opportunities for the other abound. A good mentor uses this sort of influence.
The use of competitive power assumes there is equality, but
that is not always the case. Indeed, there may be an ebbing and flowing of
power, but where competitive structures flow freely there may be little
cohesion between ‘sides’ and even less harmony within either side.
The more overtly
destructive powers are those of the manipulative and exploitative types. Manipulative power is covert
and may come disguised in friendlier ways than is purposed. Exploitative power
is overt and is the type of power that defies the entire world looking on. Yet
abuse and neglect are rooted in both manipulative and exploitative powers.
These are inherently evil powers that we ought always to be on the lookout for.
Committing to Integrative and Nutrient
Powers
There is so much to be
said for these inspiring bases of power.
Existing under such
structures implies safety, security, learning and enjoyment—life.
Where we have power we are
called to discern when we should be integrative—to be inclusive in sharing the
power—and when we should use nutrient power—when to teach, instruct, mentor and
coach.
Using these two powers is
not about us; we have put our own selfish desires to the side.
What to do About Manipulative and
Exploitative Powers
There is a good case,
here, for reporting. All good systems and structures have reporting inbuilt.
Mature reporting systems allow for complete disclosure in safety, but they also
put the onus on truth, so people can’t be reported and treated punitively
without cause.
We are all responsible for
flushing out people and power bases that misuse, abuse or neglect power.
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Power is not necessarily
evil. Many use power in good ways; where there is an integrating of the
embodiment of life and where learning is facilitated. We need to be watchful,
however, for manipulative and exploitative uses of power. When power is given
it is given for God’s purposes and for the extension of God’s Kingdom.
© 2013 S. J. Wickham.
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